林依晨 Anima

2010年6月4日星期五

"Murnie" , an important name to me in my life.

Altough in this yaer I unable went o the temple to bathed the Buddha's Statue like previous Wesak Day, but when I though the name "Murnie" , a beautiful name belongs to one of my female good firend. The pronouncation of her name "Murnie" is same to our Malay word's "murni" , meaning is a good morality value. Be worthy of her name, Murnie is a really good person at all because her friendliness sincerity made me feel comfortable all the times, despite she was not a pretty woman, yet for me is "YES" . Since I began my work at McDonald's, I was a lack of self-esteem Crew Member, by the way with her helps and supports, I can improve myself rapidly. Whne the first time she became a new good workmate to me, she was totally different compare to my the other female friends. I feel very interest to this kind of friend not only she helped me and supported me a lot during we worked together, because she is not bias to someone and she wouldn't made youfeel unhappy everytime. She hates those people whose purposely fooling me around or bullying me during working, so she tried to avoid me been harmed by them. Upon in this moment, she hinted me silently, as a man suppose be strong to face this reality as well as I should practise how to protect myself when I confront with those arrogant or ignorant people. I still remember she said something to me that quite touched my feeling, that was "Ah Hou, someday when you are becoming an Officer at any sector, please don't forget us(all my best friends especially hers) okay? " She told me like this not only she didn't hope me disappointed to hers and the other best friends, because she truelly trusted me one day I can success in my life sue to my good and hardworking behaviours. She also very concerned about me regarded my job from ime to time as well as to ensured I have no problems in any aspect. For example, one day I felt angry due to unsatisfied my manager unproper decision, Murnie calmed me down with her gentle advise and, after that she was trying all her efforts to made me smile again.You should be feel so sweet in this situation right huh? According to my instinct, her optimistic attitude like needs to "tells" me about, with only our happy thinkings guarentee we will doing all works in a good waycome with a smile to make people feel glad.These are the good friend roles played by hers with some good person features made me feel respect on Murnie the most. All the time I feel wonder why she needs to helps me a lot although I not her boyfriend? As she resigned, I started understand actually she wanted let me know, with our true sincerity we suppose to help people who in difficulty, understand with each other, making everybody always feel happy, anf the lats, yesterday she told me in our SMSs' conversations, "... When you want to choose a good friend, not only that particular friend loyal to you, however most important is he or she wouldn't taking advantages from you..." . Nevertheless, actually she can be an excellent leader among us, yet, sadly before that she hasn't this golden opportunity, so hopefully she can be an admirable good leader in her career soon! Moerover, I gegin can proven that what Chester said to me before maybe right. In fact, he told me not all the friends were as perfect as we expected, therefore we need to be caution at all the times so that we wouldn't easily betray or been manipulated by those friends with their evil purposes and tricks. I feel so lucky now because I can enjoy my lifestyle with my true friends like Chester Chang, Sun Han, Danny Liew, Sylvia Wong, "Michiko" , Shalin Tiong, Loh Kang Ho, Alan Lee as well as also Murnie, is not so easy, therefore I need to appreciate our this fantastic friendship. Until today I feel very grateful Murnie inspired me a lot beside that she motivated me to reach my successful life, at the meantime I learned too much from hers how to became a good person with a high morality value, in this case I can confrim that when we provide a good treat to the other, as a result automatically we will accepting a good return despite we given up demand more in our life. Therefore begin from now in order I want to make a great returning to Murnie due to her friendly helps, I shall proofing myself I am not a weak man and I MUST to do all the good things in my life until I success. Thanks to you all sharing my these unforgetable wonderful friendship experiences with me.